Those who are unlucky

Stop hatingggggg

"Luck bad if not good, will always be with us. But it has its way of favoring the intelligent, and showing its back to the stupid." - John Dewey

Some rainy days ago, I remember recalling friends, who use that excuse of society, to excuse themselves for feeling "subordinated" which means according to free dictionary.com 'Belonging to a lower or inferiority class or rank; secondary'. If you have an inferiority complex, then thats the real stem of your problems. A person who believes in themselves, would never say or truly believe that they themselves or their own people, are inferior. Thats just the mentality of one who is shallow enough to compare apples to oranges. Their just different.

We do live in a society of some prejudice, but mostly stereotypes, and narrowmindedness.

I never cared for society. I never cared if i was popular.
Though I remember caring about looking pretty, i was shallow, it got in the way of getting the attention of the guy who i liked . i needed more confidence.
I even had some faith, that even though the other girl looked prettier than i did, that i could still get the guy if I gave myself the chance.

It seems that the only way to live life, is to take chances to grow.

And i cried, cried cried cried. And it really did feel like forever till i had my first boyfriend in 9th grade.

What i realized though, through out my desperation, to be "equal" to these pretty girls. Is if I learn to focus more on my thoughts my feelings, my strength. i could be free from that sort of mentality. I could get anything i wanted if I made myself free, from my own jealousy, my own narrowmindedness, my own fears. This is where I know i am smart. Acting on that is a different story.
Growing up, I was a little girl about handling situations. Even though i honestly never believed in "bad luck" or "goodluck" i still empathised for others when they had "bad luck". "Awww poor youuu". I was too scared to tell them how i really felt, even my mother, when she was talking poorly about her entire life.... " Let that (your pain)be your strength, dont let it become the "end of you"...
Honestly I just hated seeing my mother cry. It made me feel so...............helpless, and ostracized from reality.
I was a "little girl" who had to take the authority of an adult to help her. I wasn't prepared, if she had the mind, to take me seriously. And that was my fault. I should have just done it. Well done it, without doubting myself so much. And perhaps learn something more from it, rather than just overcoming my doubts... thats what i am trying to train myself to do now. Getting over the fact that others might not like me, or not say nice things to me, if i become the outspoken passionate individual that i know i am.


i feel that people who "taint" things negatively by labeling real world problems as oh "bad luck always happens to me" is like they are admitting that their lives are above that of reality.

And reality is what you make of the present. Thats it.

I am true believer that you get what you truly deserve.
Like If you feel like that was the best pizza in the whole world, you probably deserved to feel like... that was the best pizza in the whole world. Somewhere deep inside your conscious, whether you choose to acknowldge and validate it or not, you deserve that pizza. That really good tasting pizza. Dont let other people confuse you into feeling, other wise. (This is just an exxageration) Thats just confusing. Its just an imaginary veil of pessimism.

People who use this "bad luck" or only fooling themselves, or perhaps too weak to admit that they are delussional. Rational people who want a happy life, know that you cant change reality by admiting to yourself, that everything bad is coming to you. Thats like digging your own grave, and saying that once you are dead, "see it was all bad lucks fault!" like your negative thoughts had noooooothing to do with it. Nothing. I dont want to pity you, i am just going to call you out. You are acting Pitiful. You can change reality by simply going through the process, by over coming your problems.
Reality is good or bad, with or without luck. Its how you approach it that starts the course you will be taking....

No one should feel bad, for being luckier, richer, prettier, happier...what ever....no one has a real reason to feel bad.

Unless they decided to run away from the truth.