Lifes a judgement

Well with me it is. I am constantly juding, who is judging me? its so serious and anal, i cant stand it myself. I need to get over my fears.

BUt i wanted to share something interesting. Something about differences. Personality differences. Differences in perception and in people. Differences in elements. This is what

I realize that people, are all different. And even the ones that think they aren't are. But they hide it with "social norm indifferences". We're everyone thinks the same, but in inactuality they are hiding their differences.

I feel like people what they fail to realize is that everyone has a different elements to their souls.
You notice how someone can easily judge someone else who has a completely different spectrum to their life? Like a very passive intellectual women, may...judge a....very expressive women outgoing women? Or when a very outspoken rightouse girl, may judge a very soft spoken gentle girl. I feel that where alot of americans , south, central and northern, do wrong. Is that they JUDGE. Right away. Instead of refusing or resisting, because perhaps they'll feel embarassed for themselves, juding this other "weird" individual. They outright close, their minds, to appreciating, the unknown. The unknown of their characters or their thoughts. And if they have very low self esteem, they'll probably feel that these "unknown" people and their weird perception of life, will probably not "understand them" so they give up on a possible friendship entirely.

Closing every door to an unknown that might judge them.

Guys and women all do this. But what they fail to realize is that they themselves are unique. Life everyone has different elemental personality traits. And sometimes the hardest thing, is for a person of different elements... is to get comfortable with each other. Like a women, who has a fiery personality , versus someone who has a very semi-passive watery personality. it doesnt mean they cant ever be friends, but what it'll probably mean is that the girls might possibly...bump heads...or even contradict themselves (those who know themselves wont have a problem with this). Psychologically, innately with things, and how you view things. Its like their afraid of finding about things about themselves. Just begin to allow the incomprehensible, surprise you, rather, than judging it instinctively. If you dont know the person, then why judge them? Its irrational. And thats why people feel embarassed when they get caught. But thats a positive sign, of having your life, and its possibilities open to the endless.

And the endless might just schock your reality...and change you. Change you unconditionally
well thats what i have to remind myself,when i am really scared. gaaaaaah